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Thursday, March 30, 2017

Sing! Choirs of Angels

Dear Missionaries and Family,

What a joyful, wonderful way to begin this holiday season.  
No question in my mind that you were :  Choirs of angels
So beautiful.
So filled with the Spirit.
So much loved.

Thank you for representing well your calling to “invite all to come unto Christ”.

I hope that you enjoyed looking and contemplating the displays of the 100’s of nativity sets in the building that night.
No one could enter and not feel the love of the savior in those depictions of His birth.
Thousands of people who attended have had their hearts touched by the true meaning of Christmas.
The Lord has prepared many of them for us to find, teach, and baptize.






Best regards,
President Michael F. Marston
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California Roseville Mission
916-847-5595

November 2016 - The Standard - Zone Conference Edition and December 2016 Advent Calendar

Dear Missionaries:

Joy to the World, the Savior Reigns !!


It was a pleasure for me to be with you at our zone conferences in November.   Hopefully, you recorded in your study journal the promptings you received while you participated in these conferences.  

In these and other important meetings, we invite the Spirit to teach us and help us to know what we need to do individually to strengthen our faith and to repent.  
I felt these promptings and am confident you did too.

Attached is The Standard which briefly summarizes important topics from the zone conferences as well as the group pictures from each day.  

It is our intent to help you remember and review the messages of the conference.  
Now is your opportunity to prayerfully reflect on these things and make commitments to our Heavenly Father to go forward with great faith to bring light to the world.

As we begin December we are reminded by all of the sights and sounds around us of the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ.
We hope that you will think of Him every day and especially at the Christmas season.
We have attached a PDF file of our mission advent calendar.   We are on day three today so spend some time tomorrow, the Sabbath day, to review the first four days and then review each day till Christmas.
We have listed hymns with each day and invite you in your companionships to sing these hymns together or listen to the music and word through the Gospel Library.
We have given you some ideas for service activities and use those along with the ones outlined with the #LightTheWorld initiative.

Sister Marston and I love you, and pray for you.

Best regards,
President Michael F. Marston
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California Roseville Mission
916-847-5595


Got my eaten' pants on!!! (November 28, 2016)

HAPPY LATE TURKEY DAY EVERYONE! ''Tis the season for families, eating
too much, and focusing on the Savior!

This week we got to do some service at another old folks home and it
was fun just sitting and chatting with them. A lot of them have lost
memory and get frustrated real easy so we just have to be patient with
them. Be nice to your grandparents and elders everyone :)

We went on some temporary exchanges with some sisters in Lincoln and
it was fun to experience the new Chevy Malibu. Dang that thing is
nice. It was also fun to stay in the 4 sister apartment for the night.
Reminds me of good times at college!

We had a surprise baptism on Wednesday! There were two little girls
that the sisters had taught the missionary discussions before I came
here. One of the girls was turning 8 and was going to be a child of
record baptism and the other, we found out, is 9 years old. She has
Down syndrome and is so full of life. The two girls wanted to get the
lessons to be prepared. It was so cute :) Our mission and stake
presidents discussed the situation and decided that it was a convert
baptism. We hurried on over to help them set up and the baptism went
off swimmingly. Technically, children with special needs don't really
have to be baptized. We have a loving Heavenly Father who made us
perfectly and he has endless compassion for those in these special
circumstances. I'm so grateful for a knowledge of our Father in Heaven
who looks out for each one of his children.

Thanksgiving was literally the bomb. We started off the morning by
going to clean the STAKE center. Then we drove over to have a combined
choir practice with the Roseville zone. We are singing at the Stake
Christmas Nativity event happening the first weekend of December. If I
do say so myself, we don't sound half bad! We singing a couple of
songs about Christmas and also about the Savior and His Atonement. I'm
excited to bring all of our people to this shin dig. Afterwards is
where the party really began. We began our food adventure at President
Marston's house. We helped get everything set up and then Sister
Vaitohi and I played with his granddaughters. President Marston's
daughter has three girls just like my family. The youngest one even
has bleach blonde hair just like Reagan :) It was so cute to get to
just run around and play games with them. Gosh I love kids. It also
meant we had a little workout before we sat down and began to eat our
lives away. Before dinner started President Marston expressed how
grateful he was for each one of us. He talked about how much he loves
us. When he loved over at Sister Marston you could really see the love
and sacrifice in their faces. Later on we got to see the Larsens (the
senior couple serving in the mission office and in my old ward) and
their family. Even though I didn't get to be with my own family on
that day, I was surrounded by family that just scooped us in.

The next stop was a Polynesian family that is related to Sister
Vaitohi. I got ahold of some wonderful pie and "worked it off" with a
couple rounds of ping pong. Then it was to another full time
Thanksgiving feast. The Smith family was so kind and thoughtful that
they made each of our favorite desserts so we would feel a little more
at home (Cheesecake and a Tongan(?) dish that is like coconut
dumplings with coconut carmel). They even let us take a snooze when we
accidentally passed out on their couch! Everyone needs a Thanksgiving
name jussayin'.

Our final stop for the night was at the Te'o family's house. I went
straight for the special dessert they had which were these sweet rolls
covered in coconut cream goodness. My tummy was happy :) Just a nice
way to finish the night with good laughter and ukulele music playing
in the background.

So later in the week we went out for some barbecue with our ward
mission leader in the Rocklin 5th Ward. We were asking him and his
wife what they do for work and all types of stuff like that. His wife
is a writer (Joannie Hilton if anyone is interested in looking her up)
and he works for the city. Brother Hilton's wife ratted on him and
told us what he actually did for most of his life. He was part of the
TV business and I was like aw ok that's cool. Then she drops this:
"You know on game shows like The Price is Right where they ask 'Bob,
tellem what they won'? Yup that was my husband. BROTHER HILTON IS
FLIPPIN BOB! I guess he's hosted other TV shows and stuff like that
too. He has the voice for it.

We got to have a really cool lesson with Sister Mondell about the ten
commandments. They are so simple and straightforward, but when you
study the basics, you can gain so much spiritual insight. That's one
gift that I believe the Mondells have. They have the ability to take
what they are learning and really apply it to their lives. When we
asked Sister Mondell what she thought of the modern applications and
blessings from keeping the commandments and she said something that
surprised me. She looked at us and told us that she thinks that she is
feeling the prompting to cut back on her work schedule. She works a
tooooon and is away from her family a lot. She explained to us a
feeling of emptiness and a longing to be with her family more. We bore
testimony to her about the Spirit and how Heavenly Father will help us
with every righteous effort we make in life. She is such a rockstar!!
We are planning to go with the Mondells and Jonathan and some other
families to a live nativity show that is set up at the Sacramento
temple every year! I've heard it's pretty grand :) I just luv
Christmas ok.

IM SO EXCITED FOR CHRISTMAS!! We have been showing the #LighttheWorld
video like crazy. We're getting ready for the stake nativity set up
and then the live nativity at the temple. Everyone should go check it
out. Everything you need to know is on Mormon.org!!

Love y'all and happy listening to all the Christmas music you can muster!

Love,
Sister Thorum


Lots of members in the wards work for the FBI...



exchanges galore!!







Sister Bennion!!!




not hanging out in the AP's car




Sister Swanson.  Check it out!!




Thankful for each of you! (November 23, 2016)

Dear Missionaries:

Happy Thanksgiving!  Sister Marston and I enjoy this holiday with its traditions of gathering with family and enjoying delicious food. Thanksgiving is a fitting way to begin the Christmas season.  We begin our celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ by showing gratitude and thanks for all that God has given us.  With all our hearts let us be thankful for our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ.

Here are some ideas for increasing gratitude in our lives:


Watch this video today and think about how you can live in Thanksgiving daily.




Review King Benjamin's counsel to his people regarding Thanksgiving found in Mosiah 2:20-21.  


Additional scriptures to ponder and ask "what can I do to show more thanks to God for my blessings?":
Alma 34:38; D&C 46:7; D&C 78:19; D&C 136:28; Thes. 5:18

Make a gratitude list including people you are thankful for.  Think of ways you can show gratitude for them.

We hope this day will be glorious and you reflect on your many blessings and name and coung them one by one.

We love you and pray for you.



Best regards,
President Michael F. Marston
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California Roseville Mission
916-847-5595

We are just spit and dirt, people. Spit and dirt. (November 21,2016)

Ahhhhhh it's just one more week until thanksgiving!!! How am I approaching 6 months already?!?! Ok I still have a few more weeks, but still. 

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY DAD!!! Since I won't get to email you until after it, I figured I bett do that now. Congrats on getting older Daddio! Thanks for your example and for your support. They've truly been some of my greatest blessings as I've served so far. 

This week was the bomb. This girl got to travel to a little piece of home when we had zone conference up in Auburn.... (CA of course, but still :)! The land and the trees up there are just beautiful. I love seeing all of the leaves changing colors. Fall is just the best. So, in preparation for zone conference we were supposed to read and study up on some things. We were supposed to prepare a little 5 minute talk on how reading the Book of Mormon strengthened our testimonies of the Savior and His Atonement. Naturally, I got so preoccupied and procrastinated, so I wrote my talk on the drive up to zone conference... Anyways, I was able to get some good things out of taking the time to ponder the prompt. Here's a little snippet of what I thought:

"I had kind of a cool experience as I read one day. I was still in the 60 day Book of Mormon challenge and I was just pondering to myself as I read and a very interesting thought came to my mind. Instead of thinking to myself, "What is going to happen next in the Book of Mormon?" Or "What is so and so going to do next?" I thought, "What is the Lord going to do in this next chapter?" 

When we center our lives on the savior through reading the Book of Mormon and drawing from those living waters daily, we can see Him more clearly working in the details of our lives. It has prompted me to dig deeper for a fuller picture of our Savior. 

So now I pose this question to all of you: "Can we see the ways the Lord acts in each chapter of our lives?" Can we apply 1 Nephi 19:23 where it says "And I did read many things unto them which were written in the Books of Moses; but that I might more fully persuade them to believe in the Lord their Redeemer I did read unto them that which was written by the prophet Isaiah; for I did liken all scriptures unto us, that it might be for our profit and learning." We are not much different than those talked about in the scriptures. That means that we have a lot more to learn. But I am grateful for a Savior who is a very active part of our eternal growth, who made it His mission to help us to make it back to our Heavenly Father."

Luckily, I got to share this testimony at zone conference (because we get randomly called on). I was not only grateful that I took the time to write out my thoughts ;), but also that we have the Book of Mormon as the keystone of our religion in doctrine, testimonies, and witnesses of Christ. We also found out at zone conference that we will, instead of having one zone conference every other transfer with interviews in between, be having a zone conference and set of interviews every transfer!! I'm excited because that means we get to come together more often, but know that it'll be a lot of work for the mission presidency. Exciting stuff man. We also got to learn about the new Christmas initiative video and the theme "Light the World". This year it focuses on how Christ is the light of the world and how we are the light of the world. We can share the light with others by serving them as Christ would. I just can't wait for the holidaysssssss. Get prepared for a month full of Christmas service y'all!! As for the title of this email, President Marston taught us about how the Savior worked the miracle in helping the blind man see. He spat in the dirt and made a little bit of clay, which he placed on the man's eyes and when he told him to wash, the man could see (I probably butchered the story, but you get the point). We are the spit and the dirt. We are the mundane tools that the Lord works with to perform wonders if we let Him. So I came up with the quote, "We are just common spit and dirt, but in the Master's hands, we can perform miracles." 

So just about every Wednesday we get to go help out with a Book of Mormon class for old people called, "Forget Me Nots". Isn't that name awesome?! Anyways, we've been reading the beginning of Jacob and learning about the allegory of the olive tree in Jacob 5. It's so funny to see these people come together to learn. There's a pair of sisters that we teach named Marilyn and Diane. They live in the same house down the road from us. Marilyn is super social and giggly. Diane is the witty and sassy one. So they roll up and come walking through the door and they both just light up the room. Marilyn is a member and Diane is not. Marilyn comes in and says hello to all of her friends and Diane follows along. Out of the corner of my ear I hear, "Hi, I'm Diane, the one who can drink!" Oh Diane. I know one day it will be her time :)

That same day we went around trying to contact some people. We knocked on this one door and met a woman named Kendra. We talked with her a little while and asked if there was a good time we could come back to teach her more. She politely declined, saying that we were very sweet but she didn't think we could change her mind at all (she's agnostic). We gave her our number and she told us that if she was ever at a point where she was wondering, she would give us a call. I testified to her that the happiness she feels with her family and in life in general can only be increased by the gospel which we have to share. We parted ways and as we walked away, my testimony was strengthened in the power of planting seeds. Even though we didn't get to teach her the doctrine of baptism or the plan of salvation or anything like that, we got to have a great conversation with a woman who is in the process of starting a family. I just know that there will come a day where she starts to wonder. I hope that on that day, a pair of missionaries will follow the prompting they receive to come to her door and that she will let them in. The Lord works in mysterious ways and with His own timing and I'm learning to trust that. 

SISTER CRANS CAME TO SEE US. I REPEAT, SISTER CRANS CAME TO SEE US. The mission momma herself came up to Rocklin to take Sister Cozzens and I out for pizza. It was so good to catch up with her. She's just a ray of sunshine :)

After that night we had a great lesson with Brother Mondell. He is someone that has been meeting with missionaries for a very long time. We are in the midst of reading the Book of Mormon, 49 pages a week, until we finish. He places himself in the stories and thinks of the writings in many different contexts. I'm convinced that he studies more than the average baptized member of this church. Anyways, on Thursday nights we go over things that stood out to us from that week's reading. This week we brought up points in Jacob 5 with the allegory of the olive tree (funny how it lined up with Forget Me Nots). I spoke up and testified that part of this chapter is about three words: returning, repenting, and reuniting. We always need to remember to return to the Lord, that He will one day return, and that he always returns to the aid of his people when they are righteous. We return to the covenant path by repenting. The Savior's whole mission was to make possible our reuniting the human family to our Heavenly Father. I was so humbled to see Brother Mondell whip out his pen and scribble something on his piece of paper. He wrote down the word, "Repentance". Then he says, "I need to do that more often." Ladies and gents, that's the key right there. Repentance is such a happy thing! It allows us to be more like our Savior and Heavenly Father! I want to be like Brother Mondell and recognize that I need to repent more often :)

On Friday we got to serve an early thanksgiving dinner to some people in an old folks home and their family members who came. It was so cool to see the joy on people's faces that came from us just taking a little bit of time out of our Friday night. Right after that, we went to dinner at a member's house and the dad let us try on some of his FBI gear. He even let us look through his thermal monocular!! This thing lets you detect sources of heat, so we could see where someone had touched a wall for like 2 seconds, or a doorknob that someone had just turned. This stuff is legit. It was a fun night to say the least. 

Saturday was rain rain rain rain rain. Sister Vaitohi wasn't feeling well at all, so we mostly stayed in. That gave me a lot of time to write and stuff like that! Helped me think about all the things I'm grateful for. And to begin to anticipate the food coma filled Thursday coming up :)

On Sunday we taught the gospel principles class in one of the wards. It was just cool to testify to so many people that the priesthood power we have restored to this church is the same power by which Christ performed miracles and the same that governed His church while he was on the earth and on to today. A very recently returned missionary came and sat in on the class and made the comment that priesthood power can only be handled by those who develop Christlike attributes because it can only be used upon the principles of righteousness. Priesthood power helps us become like our Savior!! How cool is this people?!?

Ooh other cool highlight of the week: definitely saw the Davis family at this former elder's homecoming!!! So I included a goofy picture of Lia and me :)

Hope everyone has a fabulous week and remembers to wear their eating pants on Thursday! But don't forget the real reason why we celebrate. Stay tuned for the release of a new Christmas initiative video or something like that come November 25th! Mormon.org is the place to go :)

Love,
Sista Thorum



Pizza with Sister Grans!!




If you couldn't tell, we just love her...





aaaand an impromptu mini photo shoot to commemorate a day of bomb exchanges





Lia has obviously practiced her mean mug (also featuring Carla being a literal monkey)

California Roseville Mission-November Zone Conference (11/08/2016)

Dear Families and Friends of our missionaries,

We have attached a representative copy of our upcoming zone conference agenda and training plan for the mission along with other documents for additional preparations.
We hold four days of zone conferences throughout the mission with the purposes outlined in the email below.

It is such a joy to be with all the missionaries over those four days.  To look into their smiling faces, feel of their strengths, identify the unity of companionships, districts and zones and hear their testimonies is such a great blessing to all of us.

As your missionary will be pondering and praying and studying about these subjects I felt it is important that you know the focus for them as they prepare to come to zone conferences.  For many this conference will be their first in the mission and for some this conference will be their last.  As you know their focus,  our hope is that a similar focus, in-turn,  will be part of your family focus.  Ask your missionary about their studies and experiences and have them share their testimonies with you in their emails.  Share your insights from your own individual studies and those as a family.  

It is hard to describe the love that enters my heart when I see these wonderful missionaries being diligent and faithful and courageous in the work of the Lord.  My description of that love would be:  it is love that fills me with Light!

Thank you for you continued love and support.

We love you and pray for you as we do for our missionaries.


Best regards,
President Michael F. Marston
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California Roseville Mission
916-847-5595



Dear Missionaries:


Next week, November 15-18, 2016, we will be meeting in zone conferences throughout the mission.  Currently, zone conferences are held quarterly for the purpose of teaching doctrine; training from Preach My Gospel; encouraging obedience, motivation and unity; and addressing health, safety, handbook standards, referral follow-up and other needs of the mission.  Zone conferences are about six hours in length.  To get the greatest benefit from zone conference, I strongly encourage and recommend that every missionary come prepared, with open, humble hearts, ready to learn and improve in his or her missionary service to the Lord.  




Preparation for zone conferences begins with me and Sister Marston as we carefully consider the needs of the mission, seek guidance from Heavenly Father, and follow the guidelines given to us from the missionary department and our area president.  We counsel with the mission presidency and our assistants and receive input from zone and sister training leaders at our mission leadership council meeting to know the training needs in the mission.    


The next preparation involves every missionary.  Assignments to study and prepare are included on the mission training plan and on the agenda.  I invite each of you to carefully study and pray about what you read.   Thoughtfully prepare a five minute talk on the assigned topic : “How has reading the Book of Mormon strengthened my testimony of Jesus Christ and the Atonement?”  

Listen to what the spirit teaches you, this will come in the form of questions, specific direction on how to improve your effectiveness as a missionary, or some other thought or feeling that directs you to act.  Write these impressions in your study journal and come to zone conferences seeking further inspiration and instruction which will help you fulfill your missionary purpose.  Unitedly, as ​leaders, missionaries and the Lord, we can lift and motivate each other to accomplish the work we have come to the California Roseville Mission to do--Teach Repentance and Baptize Converts.

Attached to this email are three documents:  
·         Agenda for your particular zone conference,
·         Music and words for the mission song,
·         "Lock Your Heart," a talk by President Spencer W. Kimball which will be discussed at zone conferences.  


Review the agenda, looking for assignments for music, prayers, etc.  We are sending the mission song music for you to review and learn the words so that we can sing together, wholeheartedly, during the lunch hour.

Sister Marston and I look forward to spending next week with our wonderful missionaries.  We will come prepared and invite you to prepare as well.  We testify that the Lord will bless our efforts with an outpouring of the Spirit at our conferences.

We love you and pray for you.



Best regards,
President Michael F. Marston
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California Roseville Mission
916-847-5595

Lock Your Heart
Elder Spencer W. Kimball
Latin American Mission Tour, 1968

If there are problems in the mission that you can give me light on so that I can help your President and help you, that's what I'd like. If there are situations that are difficult, if there are problems that are unknown - let me give you one example:
In one of the missions I found a bad situation. One or two missionaries had been breaking rules (as the President has talked about this morning). They began to break some rules. All they did was go over to a certain home every Sunday night for a dinner. The President didn't know anything about it. It wasn't very serious; they should have been home studying, but it was a regular thing every week. After a little while these missionaries were bringing others and pretty soon they were dancing on Sunday night, a few of them. Then they were doing a little flirting and then a few of them got to playing cards there every Sunday night. And then they were dancing in the dark with some of the Saint's girls!
The next thing we knew there was an excommunication. I came there and the things were revealed. I found that where there was only one boy who had actually gone to the extreme where he had to be excommunicated, there were about eighteen missionaries in this area who had followed like sheep over the ledge. They had not intended to do anything wrong, but they had just kind of followed the leadership. They had gone there to the meals - and they had gotten into little flirtations - not too deeply, but the thing is that there were eighteen missionaries who knew that this boy had gone too far. They knew that he was necking and petting but not one of them would ever tell! When I interviewed them and visited with them I said, "Why didn't you tell the President that conditions were bad?" One of them said, "Well, That's none of my business! This Elder can do as he pleases! If he wants to wreck his mission, that's okay with me, it's his business, it's his mission! If he wants to ruin his life that's up to him. It's his-life!!"
And then I said to these Elders, "Well what about your missions? Isn't this your mission, too? Isn't this your church, too? Are you willing that one person nullify all that you've done here? You've spent 20 months down here, Elder, and you have been working reasonably hard and at times you have done remarkably good work. Are you willing that one scandal - one scandal in this out-of-the-world place - will neutralize all that you've done? All of your efforts? That's what happens! Are you willing to do that?" He said, "Well I hadn't thought of it like that." Well, but that's what happened, isn't it, Elders? This is your mission! This is your Church! One scandal in a community is enough to annihilate the work of all of you, maybe all the work you do cumulatively- for all your two years - neutralized by one scandal in the community! Do you think that you have a loyalty? Where are your loyalties? Are you loyal to yourself? Are you loyal-to your companion? Are you willing to let him go on, and on, and on, and on, until he breaks his neck?
When he was excommunicated it was a sad day in that mission because he was a fine young man and all the missionaries loved him, and some of them were weeping that day. I remember! Some of them were weeping tears! Their brother was being excommunicated from the Church and sent home in disgrace!
And then I said to them, "Elders! Do you know who excommunicated this boy? Not me; not your President; not the Elder's court. It was you!! You excommunicated your brother! How? Well, if you'd have said, 'Elder, let’s not do that! That disturbs our whole program. We lose spirituality, all of us, when things like this happen.' Now suppose that he didn't yield and you said to him again, 'Elder, you shouldn't do that! We can't be doing those kinds of things!' And then suppose you'd gone a third time and said, 'Elder, I'm sorry, if you don't desist I'm going to have to report to the Mission President because I'm not going to have you destroy my work! I've worked too hard to have it all go to the wind! I'm going to tell the President, not as a tattletale, but I'm going to report to the President so that he can protect the whole program, if you don't desist!'"


You see there is nothing ugly about that, is there? That's the way it should be because our loyalty is first to the Lord, to the Church, to the mission, to the World, isn't it?
One more little incident that is connected: In one United States mission one day a neighbor came into the home of a new member. The neighbor was not a member, but she came and she was used to just walking in through the door- you know, she didn't always knock! So she came over to this home this day and she saw her friend, the Latter-day Saint sister, sitting on a chair here and an Elder at her feet- this will shock you- trimming her toe-nails or painting her toe-nails, or something! Well, now that isn't an unpardonable sin, but it was indiscreet, wasn't it? Even if there was nothing else that happened, just the fact that he was sitting on the floor and that he didn't have on his tie and coat, and here was a woman partly dressed, and here he was painting her toe-nails or doing something! Anyway. that city was closed, absolutely closed to missionary work for 20 years! Do you think missionaries could go in that city? Why of course they couldn't! Because there was still the memory of this indiscretion! They hadn't committed sin; at least, I'm quite sure he had never committed immorality. I think it wasn't any more than an ugly indiscretion. It was ugly enough, wasn't it? It was what it led to, you see?
That's why I say this mission belongs to you. There are 150 of you and this mission belongs to all of you. If anything happens to any part of this mission it gets a black eye! It makes it more difficult to do anything! And it makes it more difficult for you to go into the homes where they have heard ugly things about the Church. That's why one Elder isn't by himself. He can't be a loner, He has got to fit into the program, hasn't he? And everyone of you is interested. Everyone!! And you can't afford to let your companion, or anyone you know, do anything very serious because it all brings trouble to you and to the whole program. Well, think about that a little, because some people say, "I'm not going to be a stool pigeon! I'm not going to tattle! I'm not going to be telling on people!" It isn't that at all! It's a reporting just like if you saw a couple of robbers going into your neighbor's home. Would you say, "Well, it's up to them! It's up to my neighbors!" No!! We'd become involved! We'd rush to the telephone, we'd call the police! In every case, wouldn't we?
If we saw somebody being injured, being killed - like in New York some time ago, a girl was stabbed and cut all to pieces by some maniac, and there were many people who saw it and did nothing about it! She yelled for help, screamed for help, said, "He's killing me!!" But nobody would move! They didn't even call the police and there she lay, finally dead, on the street! Nobody would involve themselves. It's time we would begin to get involved when involvement is proper. And when any missionary in any mission begins to break mission rules, it's time that all his companions should become involved! It doesn't mean that they take over. It doesn't mean that they get ugly and mean. It just means that they are interested and involved. There is a nice way to do it! I tell you there wouldn't be very many broken rules if one missionary would just say to the other, "Brother, lets not do that! Let's don't do that! 'Let's don't stand there and talk to those girls! That isn't good!" And if we stop it when it's fresh - when it's young you can stop it - but when it gets deeply entrenched, that sin is awfully hard to dig out. And many times we have to send missionaries home to their families in disgrace, with excommunication frequently, because maybe their companions didn't love them enough! Maybe their companions weren't helpful enough to say, "Well, now, you're getting off the line just a little here! Let's don't do that! Let's get busy and do this, and this, and this!"
This is one program and we are all concerned about it. These mission rules, you see, are very important. We've had 137 years of experience. Now that ought to be enough experience to prove something, shouldn't it?
Through 137 years we have come to the conclusion that if two people will stay together the chances for sin or serious trouble are reduced about 98%. Once in a great while two companions will both go sour at the same time, but it isn't the usual thing. If missionaries will, when they leave Salt Lake City, the Mission Home - the day they are set apart - if they will just lock their hearts! If they've got a girl in there that's all right, lock her in! But if you haven't got one in, then lock it against all other girls of every description! And the same applies for young women, too. I am talking mainly to you Elders. You lock your heart and leave the key at home. And you never open it here! It's impossible to fall in love with someone unless you open your heart! Your heart is the only organ that has any ability to get into love, you see, and when a missionary says, "I just fell in love with a girl!" Well, that's as silly as it can be! Nobody does, nobody ever did!
So we just don't fall in love unless we are fooling around. We never fall in a crater unless we are somewhere near the edge of it. I have been up to Vesuvius and on a number of craters and volcanoes and I know you just don't ever


fall in a crater, unless you are on the edge of it. And so you just keep your hearts locked! I said lock them in Salt Lake when you leave the Mission Home and don't give a thought to it. But if you go around say, "Well, she is kind of a pretty girl! She surely is a sweet little thing! She's a nice girl! I'd like to talk to her- I'd just like to visit with her!" Well, you are in for trouble and that trouble can bring you a lifetime of trouble and a lifetime of regrets if you continue on with it.
So, can I impress that again? LOCK YOUR HEARTS and leave the key at home! Wherever you live, leave the key home with your folks. And your heart - it's only that part of it that deals with people generally that you open up. We just can't tolerate it, can we? We can't individually; we can't totally. Someone said, "Well, is there any harm to marry a Mexican girl if you are working in Mexico!” No, that isn't any crime, but it proves that some missionary has had his heart open! He has unlocked it! Is it wrong to marry a German girl when you have been on a German mission? Why no, there is no crime in that, if you met her some other way. But when you meet her in the mission field and you have opened your heart, I tell you it isn't right, and you have shortchanged your mission! Just keep your hearts locked. Your whole thought should be missionary work. How can I make it more plain and more important than that? I'd like to because there is no reason whatever for any missionary to ever become involved, not even in a decent way, with any girl in the mission field. It isn't the place! You guaranteed, you promised! You went through the Temple! You remember what you did in the Temple? Remember you promised you'd do all the things the brethren request of you, to live the commandments. That's one of the commandments when you go into the mission field: "Thou shalt not flirt! Thou shalt not associate with young women in the mission field - or anyone else for that matter - on any other basis than the proselyting basis." You promised, and you would not want to break a promise you made before the Lord in the Holy Temple of the Lord. And when you wrote, the letter of acceptance to President McKay that was implied in it. You knew of course - every missionary knows - that he isn't going out to court, that he isn't going out to find a wife! He's got plenty of opportunity when he gets home, and the mission field isn't the place.
Sometimes we find a young man who has not been popular at home; he has been very, very backward at home and he hasn't had many dates. So when he gets out into the mission field and somebody flatters him a little- some girl shows a lot of interest in him - why he's flattered. He thinks all at once, "Well, that's whom I should marry!" Well, I say this once more by repetition and for emphasis, you LOCK YOUR HEARTS and if you haven't done so, do it now and send the key back! You will not permit any impression, no romantic thought or impression in your mind. For two years you have given yourself to the Lord, totally, to teach the Gospel to the world. When you have done this perfectly for two years and then you go home, you are infinitely more attractive, more able, more dignified, more mature to make those important decisions for your life in the matter of personages to enjoy eternity with you.
Well, I didn't intend to get on to that, either, but I've been on it, and I hope I have not been offensive in it at all. I hope you got the spirit of it. Should you know of any problems that are aborning, problems that are beginning to develop, some missionary who is getting off the track, some group that is getting a little careless about mission rules, you can talk to them in a sweet kindly way. If they persist, then there is something else to do and you have a loyalty to it.
God bless you missionaries and I hope to visit with you a little longer later.




LOCK YOUR HEART Study Questions
  1. What seemingly small thing did the missionaries do that created an atmosphere where the problem President Kimball describes could take place?
  2. How serious a problem do you suppose these missionaries thought the situation was at the beginning stages?
  3. Spencer W. Kimball interviewed all of the young men in the area not just the one who went astray. Why do you think he did this?
  4. Why does President Kimball tell the missionaries they could have prevented their friend from going as far as he did?
  5. Think about your own mission, how would you feel if this kind of thing happened in an area where you were serving?
  6. How is stopping your companion before things get bad being loyal to him?
  7. What process does President Kimball suggest once we see something is going wrong?
  8. What should the priority of our loyalties be?
  9. How many converts do you think the area which was closed because of indiscretion could have yielded in 20 years? What do you suppose the work was like in that area when it did finally open?
  10. What principle is President Kimball teaching when he says that everybody should be involved and interested because anything bad that happens to the entire mission happens to them individually?
  11. How can you better put this principle into practice?
  12. President Kimball teaches that if we stop a problem early it is more easily overcome, but this is not all he suggests for getting rid of the problem. What does President Kimball suggest we do to fill the place of doing wrong things?
  13. What does President Kimball say about accidentally falling in love in the mission field?
  14. What does he say about finding and courting a spouse while in the mission field?
  15. What does he say about marrying somebody you met in the mission field?
  16. While in the mission field, on what basis should our relationships with the opposite sex be?
  17. What promise does President Kimball ask us to make to the Lord and to ourselves?